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We are a dedicated family law firm.
Our principal lawyer Nardine Collier has practiced for 30 years and is an accredited specialist in family law. Together with our other lawyers Emily and Ingrid, we have successfully resolved hundreds of cases, focusing on fairly dividing property, divorce and getting great outcomes for your children.
We know how difficult this time is for families. We know that you need to be treated with kindness, respect and honesty. We know that you don’t have unlimited funds, and you might need flexible payment options.
It will always be our aim to settle your matter as efficiently and affordably as possible. We will be upfront with you about your case and offer you realistic solutions. We hope that you can avoid court, but if you do need to go there, we will be with you for every step.
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The 5 Steps of Separation
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I not only have over 30+ years of Family Law experience and knowledge, but can truly empathise with the emotional and financial stress you are under – having been through two separations myself.

My team’s mindset is to get your case done quickly and affordably as possible – trying our best to keep your issue out of costly court proceedings. We are here to save you time, money and sanity.

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Frequently Asked Questions

When should I contact a Family Lawyer?

The sooner the better! We have people contact even us before they have separated for advice as to what they can do to start protecting assets in case it all goes pearshaped; or just to find out what they need to do. The sooner you get the advice you need, the sooner you can start getting on with what needs to be done to sort out your family law matters. We will discuss your situation with you and give you a checklist of things to think about and attend to in order to streamline the process as much as possible

Do I really need a Family lawyer? Can’t I just do it myself?

You may be tempted not to get legal advice because you think it is expensive or not really necessary. In the same way you wouldn’t think of building a house unless you had the expertise to do so, you run the risk of getting it wrong if you don’t get legal advice. This could be a costly mistake!

You really do need to know whether you are on the right track with what you think you are entitled to and what might be done if you end up before a judge. You need to pick your battles sometimes and not waste time and money arguing about something you are just not going to get. With a property settlement you will need to know the process to working it all out and what you are entitled to. You need to know what legal steps have to be taken, and how to go about it.

Every case is different and just because your mate got a certain outcome doesn’t mean you will. There is also a lot of information out there and just like a medical issue you really shouldn’t self diagnose from Dr Google!! It is worth it, to outlay what is really only a small sum in the scheme of things, to get some good advice to get you started.

Can I save money on my legal fees? How do I cope with fees?

YES! In the lawyer world, our time is your money. Most lawyers charge according to the time they spend in your file. This means, the more time your lawyer spends on your file, the more it costs you.

At Collier Family Law, we know that money is tight and you want the best value for money. This is why we will suggest to you that you can do some of the legwork yourself – as this will reduce your fees.

For example, you can write out your story – you might find it therapeutic! If it is a property matter, you can get together all your financial records and prepare them to give to us. We also have an automated letter of instruction which you fill in, and it gives us the background we need from you to give you advice. You doing this yourself will save at least an hour of time.

As another great time saver I regularly have my clients fill in documents in draft for me to check over; or make their own enquiries where they can – for example, getting three quotes from a valuer. The more you can do, the less I need to, which reduces your fees.

Remember also – your Cairns family lawyers MUST give you a proper estimate of fees at the start of your engagement with them, and keep giving you further estimates throughout the life of your file. If this isn’t covered with you at the first appointment, ask why.

Is a consent order an easy process?

Yes it really is quite a simple process. The hard part is usually reaching the agreement in the first place! But once you’ve done that, filling in an application for consent orders is reasonably straightforward. There are two places where the ‘do it yourself’ person comes unstuck. Firstly there are a couple of sections in the form that are not as straightforward as other parts of the form and might require some legal advice. The second is that the application for consent orders must be accompanied by minutes of order where you set out the orders you want the court to make. This is the part that does require some legal expertise in order to make sure the orders are worded correctly and you don’t miss things out.

How do I work out a fair property division?

Well this is the million dollar question! There isn’t really a formula as such, it is more a set of principles that lawyers apply when giving advice. These principles come from the family law act and from caselaw. There is a five step process. The first step is to look at what you each currently have and decide whether any further adjustment of property is necessary. If so, the next step is to identify and value your assets and liabilities. The next step is to work out what contributions you each made towards the property (financial, non-financial, direct and indirect). At this step, we talk about a percentage, for example 50% to each spouse. That isn’t the end of it however, the next step is to look at each person’s future needs and applying family law principles and sections of the act, decide whether the percentage that was reached in the contribution stage needs to be adjusted up or down. The final stage is to work out what property you will actually receive, in order to achieve the percentage that is a fair outcome for you both.

How do I value my property?

Firstly – it’s current values not what it was worth at separation. For “Real” property (houses etc) get a real estate agent to give you an appraisal. It will do to start with and it’s free. For cars, bikes etc go to www.redbook.com.au; or carsales.com.au; for boats, caravans etc, look online at similar sales – or take these items to a dealer locally.

Bank accounts are easy, you just need a printout of all bank accounts.

Furniture, tools, jewellery etc – it’s a second hand value not replacement/insured value and don’t get too excited about it, it’s often worth much less than you think! Try and come up with a global value; again by looking on Gumtree, experts in TradingMate.com.au or Marketplace for an idea.

For superannuation, take in the most recent statement but also see if you can get a current balance.

Valuing a company and/or business is a bit more involved and may require a formal valuation.

What if I want to leave town with the kids?

In Cairns Family Law terms this is called a relocation. If you have court orders in place that provide for the children to live with or spend time with the other parent, you would not be able to re-locate if by doing so, those orders were not able to be carried out any longer.

You have to apply to the court for orders a variation of the court orders if the other person didn’t agree to let you relocate with children.

If there are no court orders in place then of course relocating without the other person’s consent is not a breach of court orders but you run a real risk of the court ordering the children to be returned back to the place where they were taken from, if they were taken without the other person’s consent. The starting point is always mediation to see if you can resolve whether the relocation can be agreed. If not then unfortunately you really must seek the approval of the court before relocating.

What time should kids spend with each parent?

The Family Law Act says that when a court is looking at parenting orders, and when parents are negotiating them, the starting point is a “shared care” arrangement. However, the shared care arrangement must be in the best interest of children and be ‘reasonably practicable’ which means, able to be carried out. Whether or not a shared care arrangement is in a child’s best interest depends on many factors. Age of the children is relevant; as is whether there has been any family violence; and whether there are other concerns. The general rule of thumb is that a shared care arrangement doesn’t work well for children under school age and it certainly doesn’t work well for any children when there is a great deal of tension between the parents.

How do I get a divorce? How do I cope?

You make an application to the court. The application for divorce is a fairly straightforward form that can be downloaded from the Internet and filled in by people without necessarily needing family lawyers to do it for you. You do need to be aware that you must be separated for at least 12 months before you can file your application. You can be separated but still living under the one roof however, you will need to file an affidavit setting out all the things that Court needs to know to be satisfied that you are in fact separated. There are some tips and tricks in relation to filling in an application for divorce correctly, and serving it. It is always worth getting some legal advice about the process.

What is equal shared parental responsibility?

The first thing is what it is not. It is not shared care. Equal shared parental responsibility is the concept that parents will consult with each other about major long-term issues to do with the children. A major long-term issue is things like a child’s religion, education, medical things that are important, not just a day today trip to the doctor. It also includes changing the child’s name, and changing where the child lives such as to substantially affect the other person’s ability to spend time with the child.

How do I get a passport for a child with the other person won’t sign?

If you have a court order that provides that you have sole parental responsibility of the child you should be able to get the passport without the other person’s signature. You can also apply to the passports office on the grounds that you are unable to get the other person’s signature because of an accepted reason such as, you are unable to find the person or there is family violence. If all this fails, you will need to make an application to the court for the passport to issue without the other person’s consent.

How do I change my child’s name without the other parent’s agreement?

Even if you have sole parental responsibility under a court order, the Department of Births Deaths and Marriages will require the other parent’s signature. Without that, the only thing you can do is make an application to the court. The court will look at things like the age and wishes of the child; how the change of name will affect the child; what relationship the child has with each parent and in particular, whether changing the child’s name will affect the relationship the child has with the parent whose name they would be forgoing.
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Surviving the Separation | How to Cope When it Hurts for You and Your Children

Are you surviving this separation? 

Chances are that if you are reading this, you have reached an agreement with your former partner, or you are hopeful of doing so. In that case you might be feeling positive about this process, which is great. If not, this may help you, or someone you care about who is going through separation. 

The first thing to know, is, it is OK to be sad. According to the experts, a separation is up there at the top of the list of life’s most traumatic experiences, underneath the death of a loved one. For many, separation is like a death. It is the end of a life as you knew it. So don’t pretend it is all OK. 

You’re not alone. Call on the support of family and friends. Better yet, get some professional assistance with a counsellor or psychologist. I recommend this to clients even if they feel they are doing fine. It doesn’t hurt to talk it all through and make sense of your feelings.  

If you have children, you need to be doing OK. Just like in the aircraft where you adjust your mask before fitting theirs, your well being is so important.   

Children WILL be affected by separation.  Every child will experience some emotions - they can be surprised, angry, sad, confused, insecure, frightened, and also grieving for the loss of the family. They can feel responsible. Chances are good, they still love the other parent and miss them greatly. They might start behaving differently at school and home. It is great if you can recognise the signs your child is struggling with the separation and get them some help, as early as you can.  

See our blog “How to help my child through separation” written with a child psychologist making sure I have it right.  

It might bring some comfort, to know there are stages of separation. If you are lucky at the end of a relationship you might just feel relief. But often what you feel is grief. It might help to recognise the stages of grief, which applied to a separation might look like this: 

  • shock and denial – how can this be happening? Especially when you are not the instigator of the breakup or even worse, were not expecting it
  • anger and blame – your former partner, another person
  • sadness and depression.

The good news is that one of the last stages of grief is healing; the acceptance that the relationship is over and with that, the ability to move on. 

In your post separation relationship with the other person, particularly if you are trying to resolve disputes over property and/or children, it’s good to realise that you might be at different stages  - you have moved on but the other partner is still angry or sad, or vice versa. 

Start taking action and getting information. Separation can be completely overwhelming. Where do you start to unravel plans for the future and finances? What should happen with arrangements for children and who gets what financially? I guarantee you, the sooner you get some advice and assistance to work out a plan of action, the better you will feel. Clients tell me time and again how much better they feel even after the first appointment because they can see some light at the end. 

Put a routine in place for children. All the parents out there know that children thrive on stability and routine. The best post separation parenting arrangements are those that are ideally negotiated between yourselves, that are consistent, and provide for children to have time with both parents (if that is what is best for them). This does not necessarily mean an equal time arrangement particularly for children under school age. 

It will get better! At some point, these disputes will get sorted one way or the other. How quickly and affordably is up to you and the other person. If you are both committed to sorting this all out so you can both move on, it can happen quite quickly and without the expense of court proceedings.

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Surviving the Separation | Your First Steps to a Fair Property Settlement

 

Welcome to the crazy world of life after separation.

You need to sort out your property, but how?

This Blog is the first in a series of blogs designed to assist you to navigate the murky, perhaps shark infested waters of property division and end up safe at shore, with your deal done.

I want you to end up with an outcome that is fair and one that ideally, is negotiated with your former partner, and agreed between you. Separated people who cannot agree how to divide their property and need the court to decide, will end up spending a great deal of money in legal fees. You have better things to do with your hard-earned money, then spend it on legal fees. Particularly if you have children.

We start with some legal stuff that will help you to understand the wording more easily and tell you what the law says has to be done or might be done if you end up before a judge. You need to know this. You need to pick your battles sometimes and not waste time and money arguing about something you are just not going to get.

We will tell you about the 5-step process that we use to advise clients about what is a fair outcome.

Later blogs step you through the process and what you need to do, to get to an agreed outcome (and then we tell you what to do with that outcome, once you have it.) I've broken down the process into 9 easy to understand steps.

Here’s a very ‘lawyery’ disclaimer- this is information only, not advice and you can’t rely upon it as advice. Use this information as a guide, to point you in the right direction and to help you understand the legal language and principles. I cannot stress enough, to obtain legal advice that is specific to you, as you go along. Here are some notes as well:

When I talk about “relationship” and “partner” – it means both defacto (never married) and married couples; and includes same sex relationships.

These blogs will talk about “what the court will do” as that is our benchmark, that is how we advise you. Please note, I will encourage you to think of going to court as a last resort, so just because we talk about “court” doesn’t mean you should make an application to the court. UNLESS!! It is an application for consent orders.

An application for consent orders is a form that is filed with the court once people have agreed how to divide their property and/ or what arrangements they want in place for their children. As the name of the form suggests, you are asking the court to make orders by consent, that you have both agreed to. Even though you file the application in the court you don't actually go to court. Once the application is filed a registrar of the court will give you a date when he or she will consider your application and on that date, you will be informed whether the application has been granted or not. If the application is not granted the court will “requisition” it. The court won't dismiss your application straight away, you will be given information by the court as to why the registrar was concerned about your application and you will be given an opportunity to rectify the issue may have arisen.

There's further information about this in the blog entitled “filing your application for consent orders.

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Can your legal fees come from the joint money of the relationship?

When that first bill comes in from your solicitor, how do you pay it? When you are in a relationship money is joint and bank accounts are joint. Where does that money come from to pay your first solicitor bill after separation? It is very tempting to take that $20,000 from the joint savings account to pay your solicitor fees.

The legislation provides a starting point for parties to consider where the money comes from to pay your solicitor bills. Section 117 provides that each party to a proceeding is to bear their own costs. Meaning that the money to pay your solicitor shouldn’t come from the property pool that needs to be divided. ie, your solicitor costs can’t come from the joint bank account.

But what happens when it is taken from the property pool (say that $20,000 sitting in a joint savings account), the case law says that money needs to be added back into the property pool.

  • In Chorn & Hopkins (2004) FLC ¶93-204, the Full Court of the Family Court at [57] said “If the funds used existed at separation, and are such that both parties can be seen as having an interest in them (on account, for example, of contributions), then such funds should be added back as a notional asset of the party, who has had the benefit of them.”
  • In Farnell & Farnell (1996) FLC ¶92-681 the husband used $20,000 he withdrew from a joint account at separation on legal fees. The wife gave no evidence as to her legal costs. The trial judge treated the $20,000 as a notional asset which he added back to the total property pool. The Full Court dismissed the husband’s appeal.

What if you choose to take a loan out to pay your solicitor bills. Can that be included in the balance sheet as a liability? The case law very clearly says no. It cannot be included as a liability in the property pool:

  • In Chorn & Hopkins (2004) FLC ¶93-204, the Full Court of the Family Court said, “nor would any borrowing undertaken by a party post-separation to pay legal fees be taken into account as a liability in the calculation of the net property of the parties.”

The simple answer is legal fees cannot come from the property pool, or you risk having to account for them as an add back to your detriment.

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DEMANDS FOR PARENTAGE TESTING – “that child is not mine”

What happens when your previous partner says, “I don’t believe that child is really mine”. Of course, there are a great deal of emotions during separation. Even where there was never infidelity, the question of parentage can be raised by the other party out of hurt feelings. Other reasons might be that a claim is made for the payment of child support.

The person questioning the paternity of a child have not considered how that question could affect the child in question. If the child is well into teenage years or a pre-teen, the relationship of parent/child is well established. The question we would pose to the person wanting the test is “have you considered the child and how they will react?” How will you explain your reasons for the testing to the child? and “what is it that you will do if they are not your child?”. When a parent has been a parent for a long time, do they want to sever that relationship? Are they proposing to remove that child from their life? What will happen in the event that the child is not yours? 

These issues must be considered before asking for or agreeing to the DNA test.

Be aware that proper DNA testing isn’t taking a hair from a hairbrush and sending it to a lab. It requires a blood test from a child which is usually traumatic in itself but how will it be explained to an older child/teenager as to why this test is required?

The court take a strong view in relation to parentage testing and say that there must be evidence to put parentage in issue – mere doubts are not sufficient.

The starting point is the presumption of parentage under the Family Law Act.

For married couples, under section 69P, if a child is born to a woman while she is married, the child is presumed to be a child of the woman and her husband.  

For de facto couples, under section 69Q, is that if the child was born to the woman AND at any time during the period beginning not earlier then 44 weeks and ending not less than 20 weeks before the birth, the woman cohabited with a man to whom she was not married then the child is presumed to be a child of the man.

Further, there is a presumption that if a person’s name is entered as a parent of a child in a register of births or parentage information then the person is presumed to be a parent of the child (s69R).

Further, there is a presumption as to artificial conception procedures under s60H(1).

There appears a vast amount of presumptions and the onus is on the person who says the child is not theirs, to rebut that presumption. However, case law has very much made it clear that parentage is no longer determined by legal presumptions. In G v H [1993] FamCA 39; (1993) FLC 92-380 Fogarty J noted at 79,942: “Paternity is now a medical and not a legal issue.”

A DNA test will confirm paternity, not 100% but with such a strong likelihood of paternity that it can be said legally that the child is the child of the father. A DNA test will exclude a person being the father of a child with 100% certainty. It is a very simple answer to the question of paternity to do the test.

But firstly, consider the child.

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I want to change the locks – The Good, the Bad and the Frustrating

After separation, it is common that one party stays in the matrimonial home. Either they ultimately want to keep it from any property settlement or they want/need to remain there until the house is sold.

The good reasons to change the locks is “I am scared of them returning”. Change the locks! Your personal safety is paramount.

The bad reasons to change the locks is to stop the other person from entering the residence to collect personal possessions. It is always best to arrange for these possessions to be collected from an agreed safe location.  Unless of course, you have an objection to the items they are wanting to collect.  Arranging a time and location to make an exchange is the best solution.

The frustrating reasons to change the locks “I think it will annoy them”. Frustrating negotiations is never the answer. Another frustrating reason is when parties are living separated under the one roof. Don’t change the locks to “lock them out”. If living separately under one roof is not working, lets discuss how best to move forward and negotiate who is to remain in the residence.

Who’s name is on the property can also change the answer.

  • If the property is held solely in your name, then go ahead and change those locks. It is your rights over the property.
  • In general, matrimonial property is held in joint names.  Both are entitled to access the property. But when there are genuine concerns for safety. Your safety is the first concern! Change the locks.
  • What if you are in rented housing? You must first obtain the consent of the landlord. And in doing so, you need to look into your options to remove your previous partner from the lease.

The court can make orders about who can occupy the family home and restraints on the other party from entering the property.

Our thoughts on changing the locks is that it is reasonable in many situations. To ensure you know what is best for you, obtain legal advice first.

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Separated, and don't know where to start?

We appreciate it is very overwhelming when you don't know where to begin to start sorting out the division of property following a separation. Here is our process.

The starting point is for us to gather information from you so that we can give you an advice as to what would be a fair outcome for you. We need to know things like, what all of your assets are and what you think they're worth; how much debt do you have; what did you have at the start of your relationship; What contributions did you each make during the relationship both financial and as homemaker and parent if applicable; What's your current financial situation and what does the future hold for you.

Once we have this information we are on our way to giving you an advice about what your proposal might be to resolve the division of property between you and your former partner.

We charge according to whatever time is spent on a file and it is at an hourly rate of $400 per hour plus GST. In order to try and save you at least an hour of fees we have a questionnaire that we send for you to fill in, in your own time, which asks all of the questions above.

When the questionnaire is returned to us, we have a look at it and make a time to go through it with you. It might be the case that we need some more information in which case we will tell you what that is and how we go about getting it. If there is enough information from the questionnaire for us to give you an advice about a good proposal and outcome for you, then we will talk about that at an appointment. We will also talk about how we can put your proposal to your former partner, will it be by way of you talking to your former partner, us writing them a letter, you both attending a mediation, or a combination of all of these things? There is no right or wrong method and we will talk to you about what is the best for you.

Once a proposal has been put to your former partner, we wait to their response. Their response will let us know the future pathway for your matter. For example, the response might indicate that you and your former partner are quite close to reaching an agreement. Or it might be the opposite. Either way, we will let you know what the next steps are and give you a further estimate of fees.

At all times what we are working towards is having you and your former partner reach agreement about the division of your property and having that agreement documented in a legally binding manner, usually, by way of an application for consent orders although a financial agreement is also an option. We will talk to you more about this when the time comes.

We will tell you what to expect, what we require of you, and what you can do to assist us to minimise your fees. Hopefully this will make your pathway through the process a lot easier!

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